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Sunday, 30 August 2009
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It's either Gay or Homeless, Son
I grew up in a Jamaican Family and I guess the best euphemism for how Jamaicans, especially older ones, feel about homosexuals is that we are not exactly "gay-friendly." In fact, TIME magazine called Jamaica "The Most Homophobic Place on Earth."
Ouch.
So it was no surprise when my cousin came out of the closet, that he was shown the door. Combined with yelling, screaming, cursing, police and beatings it was pretty mild than what I thought would have happened:
What would you do if your kid was gay?
Thursday, 06 August 2009
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Childless and Happy.
I watched The Orphan last night and I am more convinced than ever that kids are something I don't want in my life.
I met many people with the same views as me, young and old, who decide that children are just not for them. As a matter of fact there are forums dedicated to this topic: http://www.experienceproject.com/groups/Am-Childless-By-Choice/68476. I don't think it's that abnormal anymore. There are billions of people on this planet, by me not procreating am I really making any kind of impact? Apparently other people think so. The things I really hate hearing are...
You'll want kids one day.
Right... because even in the 21st century, my only purpose on this planet is to have children. If I don't I am not living up to standards and I will be without.
Or...
Your future husband will have you change your mind.
So either my future husband is going to force me to have kids or I will just open my uterus for him. Because after I'm married, my body is no longer mine (I have no control over it) it's his, therefore when he says "pop out the babies" I will oblige. Also, I will take care of them and the house because that's what good housewives do.
I understand that it's a foreign concept but I just feel like having kids is a huge responsibility not to be taken lightly. SO if you're not ready why have them? Wouldn't it be better to wait until you can and want to have them?
Do you want kids? How many? Why?
Wednesday, 05 August 2009
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Popping the Cherry
Many people wait until they are married to have relations.
But I can't help but think how awkward it must feel for the girl:
A. It's probably going to hurt
B. It's probably going to be awkward because you are not going to know what you are doing
C. If he's a virgin too, neither is he.
I just have this image of the wedding night being this awkward situation where you are copying what you think you know about sex with blood all over the hotel sheets. Are you waiting until marriage, why? And if not is it because of what I said or were you just eager to get it over with?
Wednesday, 29 July 2009
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Thongs are Not just for Guys
This is a response to bmxgirl165@xanga.com post on thongs:
http://www.mancouch.com/708377980/young-not-quite-sexy-buttfloss/?ref=xn
It really irks me when people think that fashion, makeup etc. are done solely to please members of the opposite sex.
Although I understand that some (most?) girls do it to make guys like them more (or quite specifically lust after them more.) Sometimes, it's innocent and for us and not just them. It's proven that when you think you look good or when you think you look sexy, you exude more confidence. You feel better about yourself. Why should I wear granny panties when thongs look sexier (even if it's only to me.) As Mike said to Abby in The Ugly Truth, "If you don't want to have sex with yourself, why would Collin?"
Do you wear sexy lingerie and clothes to make yourself feel better/confident or am I the only strange one in the room?
Tuesday, 28 July 2009
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Dating with Kids
Although most people would agree that it would be nice to get married before having kids, this is not often to be the case. More and more singles are raising children by themselves and I have to ask, I wonder what their dating life is like. Definitely it would be harder because most parents would want to put their kids' first and want to date people who not only like them, but also their kids. My mom (who is a single mom) always says that if I hate him, it would be very difficult to get the two of them to the altar. Many men would not date a girl with kids, thinking that she's a floozy and what not. Would you? Would you date a person with kids, knowing full well if you two got married that you're going to have built-in children?
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